Talking To Mom & Dad (#901)

Talk with Mom:

Why did you buy me something to wear that needed fitting?

Good Morning

Why did you buy me something to wear that needed fitting?

All my clothes aren’t good enough?

You don’t know me at all

And ORDERING me to do things is not going to get your way

Go away

Ok so don’t plan to be at Bat Mitzvah

Fine—Sam already made it clear she doesn’t want to have to worry about me—and apparently neither do you

Tell them I didn’t feel well—that would end all questions

Five weeks—my ass………..

You can’t make me do what you want me to do so you’re getting angry 😡—fine get angry

No you don’t want to compromise!!!!

I made an appointment with Roxana on Friday at 8pm (only time left) to talk about hygiene

So shut up about it—I’ll handle it

Sound good see you then

She replied

What? Nothing to say for me taking the bull (hygiene) by the horns and taking care of it myself

Well?

Either you fix your hygiene or you don’t

Your choice- no discussion needed now or in the future

Not answering any other texts!!!

BSBSBSBSBSBSBSBS

IM NOT COMING—YOU CAN EXPLAIN

Don’t just throw away the conversation because I co-opted it

Hope that outfit you bought is returnable……………..

You want me to fight with you?

I just capitulated and you couldn’t be gracious—I still have the appointment on Friday but I’ll be damned if I’m going to do EXACTLY what you want

Read the room—I told you I was in a Meh mood—& you started anyway

I don’t want to be treated like your dog—pet to be good but ignored on everything else

I told you I took the first appointment I could and you HUNG UP ON ME—I should cancel—or you should be gracious

Talking to Both Mom & Dad:

If you think I’m just going to shut up—you forget how you raised me—now—get off my back

You basically told me that the clothes I have aren’t good enough and by not following you hygiene rules I’m stepping out—Damn right

To Mom—I get one shot at this:

I made an extra appointment with Roxana to talk about my hygiene problems…

Please hold on until Saturday morning so I can tell you where we landed…

Mom & Dad back at me:

Once you’ve developed your plan and had some success with it, call us

We will wait until next weekend before we cancel anything

Good luck! We do want you to succeed!

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A whole conversation…